Jason Alba, author of I'm on LinkedIn -- Now What?, gives Wired's How-To Wiki advice on how to use LinkedIn for something other than esteem-boosting connection counting. One of the keys is stepping away from the monitor if you want to make contact with somebody in a contact's network—in other words, use that old-fashioned phone to get ahead. ... LinkedIn "isn't the place to nurture a relationship. It's a place to find and be found. But once you find them, go outside the system." Meet up in person to complain about coworkers ... and you build face-to-face relationships that are stronger than any virtual connection. Sound advice—no editor I know is going to hire a writer based on how gre ...